Okay so... I'm bi. Yeah, I know, big deal. Anyway. The point is that I didn't really figure it out until kind of recently, but I know it's not really something I've just decided; it makes total sense. I'm more comfortable with the idea of dating women (I am a woman, btw) than I am with dating men, but I know that I will always be at least a little bit attracted to men.

So anyway. The point is that I'm actively trying to explore dating women. The thing is that I've never dated a woman. I've never done anything more than make out with a woman, and I'm kind of ashamed of this, like the lesbian/bi community will shun me (someone who is in her 30's) for this. But I live in a relatively conservative area, and for many different reasons (the biggest of which being that I was a conservative Christian until about 5 years ago), I've dated exclusively men. I just joined Plenty of Fish, and I was honest on my profile about not being incredibly experienced...but I was humorous about it, saying that I was a veritable barrel o' monkeys and that this should not deter anyone from at least having a cup of coffee with me and seeing what I was all about.

What do you think? I don't know, I just feel so embarrassed about my lack of experience.

P.S. I just signed up yesterday and have already had a few ladies favorite me so...go me, I guess.