Hi ~ Did you ask him WHY he cheated? What drove him to cheat? Was there something lacking in the relationship that he had to find elsewhere? You need to ask more questions.

It has always proved true to me that once a cheat, always a cheat, especially if the woman "forgives" him. I supposed you can forgive him once, but if he EVER does this again, NEVER get back with him.

Personally, I'd dump him now and not give him a chance to do it again. I just do NOT put up with cheating. I figure that if he can't deal with me the way I AM, I'm certainly not going to change for ANY man. If he liked me at first the way I was, what's wrong with me now? See what I mean?

But whatever you decide, I wish you the best. Please take care and God bless. Hugs, Lee