Hi! I don't know what to believe about him either, but I do suggest you follow his advice and move on. It's best not to put your life on hold!

As far as having DPD, I am not in a position to diagnose. I suggest you being this issue up with your counselor. A number of things could explain why you're wanting to hang on to these guys. There might be a pattern there, it seems.

I'm sure it's hard to feel so close to a guy and then have him just tell you to go away. But it might be for his best, too, that you leave him to his own devices. It does sound strange to me that somebody could accidentally put another person's money into his own account. It certainly seems suspicious, anyway.

Try to get busy with other things. Okay? Girlfriends? Going out and having fun. And please continue with your therapy, so you can get a better idea of what might be happening. It doesn't strike me as DPD, but as I say, I'm not an expert here.