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Originally Posted by IAmAFaucet
After two weeks I finally wrote him to tell him I wanted to give him his things back and if he would tell me when he wouldn't be at his house I would leave his things on his porch or if I didn't hear from him, I would swing by and if his car wasn't there I'd leave them and go or if it was, I would try again another time.
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Although I do not know the specifics of the submissive/dominant relationships, I do think that you went too far.
"I want to return your things to you. (optional: "if you still want them,") Let me know how you would like to arrange the hand-off" would have been sufficient. Just neutral/matter-of-factly.
Especially since you were NOT in the submissive relationship at the point of your writing to him about his things, why bend over backwards?