Let me keep it private .

Re: Randy's mental health: during the last dinner, he dropped the word "Asperger's" talking about fitting in socially while in school; I was not clear if it was his official dx. That is OK, either way.

He changed his plans re: birthday. He decided that his apartment was too cluttered for him to invite me. I was surprised; he visited me a couple of weeks ago and I highly doubt that his (or anybody's, for that matter) apartment is more cluttered than mine, but whatever. So we had dinner at a restaurant instead. Nothing more.