I see misskeena trying to help and nevergoodenough feeling like his feelings are invalidated.

I don't think either one of them means anything bad.

Once I used a username in a chatroom (not here) and someone thought it looked negative and suggested I used somthing more positive. I see nevergoodenough being honest about things and that's reflected in a username. I often feel never good enough, too. But in this other chatroom, this person wanted me to share a more "positve" name and I too felt very sensitve to that; felt really embarrassed about being "negative". I have been told that all my life. My bpd feeler just reacted and I just felt so embarrassed.

I am not taking sides with anyone, but I do understand how this feels.

I also understand wanting to help and then feeling like it's pushed back. I have been there too.

I hope you two can understand where the other is coming from. I can identify with you both. It's also okay if you don't. I wish people would not fight on here. It makes me feel sad.

Carol