ok idk i lost my erection tonight while in the middle of sex. i am so dissapointed in myself to say the least. it has never happened before and it is the worst experience of my life. though im jealous or your situation you were nice enough to let it go and ask why. i wasnt so lucky. i do not know why it happened to me im only 24. but from a mans perspective i have never felt more embarrased shamed and all together weak as i did tonight. the woman im with is beautiful and amazing, yet i could not satisfy her. i had to use a toy. how degrading is that for a man. after i left her place i felt like dying. so my advice is be gental and forget about it. god knows i never want to relive tonight....