Hi ~ You need to relax. You can't MAKE someone into something that they aren't. If you're going to stay with her, you need to accept her the way she is. You can't change her, just as she can't change you.

And you must stop being "fake." You need to just be YOU. If you're being YOU right now, you're finding that you have an anger problem. Flying into rages isn't good, and if you're not in therapy, you should be. One of these days, you're going to hurt her and she doesn't deserve that. NO woman deserves that. Remember -- you cannot put your hands on her in anger!!! And WHO are you mad at anyway? I really doubt you're that mad at HER. I have a feeling it's someone/something in your past and you're just taking it out on her.

You may feel she's unsupportive, but look how supportive she was of you when you were in that very low spot earlier. She helped bring you out of that. Now SHE is low, and she wants you to help HER out of it. She can't be supportive right now because she's hurting. You should be able to see that.

Perhaps you two shouldn't be together at all since you both have serious issues. You need to talk to each other and decide if this is a good relationship or not. Don't just "leave" her -- talk it out. See what each of you wants to do. But you BOTH need therapy, and soon.

I wish you both the very best. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee