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Originally Posted by Lovely Loss
.........pretending to be in love with her.
This is selfish, suggesting you play along because you refuse to be alone.
.......I regret agreeing to go out with her because now I'm in a situation where I can't leave
This speaks volumes to my earlier statement, about being disinterested in This relationship.
......... if I leave it could hurt her too much. So I don't.
This backs up my statement about pity/guilt
............But as time went on I became a little more accepting of the relationship.
This, this is so wrong on so many levels. You should ALWAYS want to be in a relationship with your partner, not learn to become accepting of one, as if you are held hostage.
.............Should I even be in this relationship?
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The fact that you ask speak volumes....
The excerpts are why I feel and think neither of you should be in this relationship, with eachother.
You are there more because you hate being alone, and I have no idea what her reasons are, but both of you deserve better.
Therapy is an option, but doesn't seem viable under this light, IMO
I dont mean to be mean, just making an objective observation and pointing out how I came to this conclusion
