Yeah that's true. but i hate to be the one to just keep staring at them in disgust every time they stroll by me. after all, i should just forgive and do away with it. then again, if you forgive too easily, people will take advantage of that, and if you don't, you are hurting yourself because you are constantly trying to pit yourself against them and you often see them as enemies of yours trying to prod on you and you don't want that. you want to see people as if they are not against you but for you.