I agree that perhaps phone call shlould not have been answered during the session as not to interupt the session.

As far as faking the alter. I understand alters can imitate or mirror each other. I have not heard a host can do that.. but maybe with enough co conciousnous one can. ( i am not saying you did not clarity) just theorizing in my general knowledge of DID.

My concern is if you love your sister so much and are close.. why does that not include homesty? If she excepts you for who you are she is probably going to be fine with the DID. I am concerned that uou had to "lie" to your sister by becoming the alter she knows you to be. Maybe sister alter felt you were ready to handle your sister on your ownn with T there. Of course i don't know spdecific like if your sister alter is the one who always comes out around your sister and you never do.. ect. Just things to think about.. keep in mind I'm not a T. Just someone else with a little and suspected DID but i care. But your not nuts or psychotic i don't think. Judt pretending to protect yourself or your sister...

As far as Amanda the way she stated what she said may have been a little forward but guys it isn't fair to attack her. I admit i have been slightly ofended by responses to responses she made to me too. But then i read her about me page. Did you all know she is VOLUNTARILY on moderation so that she doesn't accidently get to clinical or too short with people. As a T herself the reason she mentions New York in most posts is because there Re different diagnostic criteria for different countries. She wants to make sure anybody reading ffrom Austrailia knows she is talking about USA stuff. This is important for some diagnoses. There are some where x is not a symptom if held as normal by cultural standards. In otherwords she is looking at the big picture.
Yes, she has a different writting style. I think espevially since she is intregrated and has gone through a lot of crap in her life like us. We can learn a lot from her as we do everyone.
But if you can't get pazt her sritting style then ignore all her posts with the ignore button. And not everyone is going to agree but it can and should be done respectfully.

Now i really hope all of you will still be nice to ME! I really like it here at PC. i don't like to see people argue. Especially when there aren't that many of us. HUGS to all. I care!