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Originally Posted by Claritytoo
You absolutely said I was a fake because of what I did. You think because you just imply it that it don't count. Your wrong. AlsoI have lived in New York State all my life and most of what you tell others is not what I have recently learned about the treatment of DID. And I am sorry for calling you an idiot and using profanity. I have been having a rough time recently because of the horrific abuse I took as a child and was very angry at you for daring to say that I had should not have tried to protect my sister from my truth. I am still angry at you for that. And I still think you need to educate yourself if you are going to be passing out advice. Because if you weren't intending to be passing out advice you would not be responding to everyone and everything on this site. Hopefully you are opened minded enough to read some of the other posts and consider what is being said.
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Im sorry but when I reread my post I did not see anywhere, where it was implied that ....you...were faking...
my post very clearly states I was talking about me and my own therapist... now I dont see why this thread has been turned around to attacking me just because I chose to let you all know what my own therapist would have felt if I had done this... I did not write that to mean this was what other peoples treatment providers would have thought...
when I read your post, it made me wonder what ...my own...treatment provider would have thought if I had answered a phone call from my own sister and sat in front of my therapist making my own voice sound like an alter, because the alter did not take over...
the bottom line is...
my own therapist would have confronted me on it.
my own therapist would have asked me point blank why ...I ..had pretended to be an alter when I hadnt switched into an alter.
my own therapist would have asked me point blank all those questions I had posted that she would ask...
why?
because here where I live and work it is called ...pretending, faking ...when a person acts like they are an alter when they have not switched into one.
I am not saying this is what anyone elses therapist would have said and done....this is only what my own treatment providers would have said and done to me if I had done that.
Im sorry that there are those of you who feel like what my own treatment providers would do with me is called bullying and attacking you...
lets take this from a different angle for a moment...
if I read someones post sayinmg their treatment provider lets them drink booze during their therapy session does that mean mine does that or has to do that too...
of course not..
does that mean someone is implying I have to drink booze during my therapy sessions..
of course not.
iF I posted I yelled at my therapist and someone posted a reply saying if they had yelled at their therapist like that their therapist would have dropped them, or imposed some boundry/disciplinary action...
does that mean that poster is attacking me or that they are bullying me, or that they are wrong for posting what their own therapist would have done if they had yelled at their therapist like I do?
of course not.
just because one cleint therapist relationship is different from another members and the member posts about it does not mean the one posting is implying things...plain and simple they are just writing their ...own experience if that situation had happened to them and their own therapist...
now if anyone else wants to keep discussing this and whether I posted right or wrong ..you have two choices...
one take it to pm so that if the orignal poster wants to continue discussion their own problem they can...
two there is a report the post to the moderators button for anyone who feels a poster was attacking / bullying/ posting wrong.
my own decision is to move on to other things. I have wasted enough of my time and energy on trying to explain the point of view from which I was posting from.