Like Anne I'm more a quiet leaker than a full on sobber but last Thursday right at the end I told T something very shameful and couldn't control the crying. It was noisy - for me anyway, snotty, and I buried my face in my scarf so I couldn't see T. She usually stays quiet when I cry up to a point then she'll gently say something comforting which I think she did on thursday but I was so distressed I actually can't remember Oh man, this Thursday's going to be a challenge....