haha yes, I believe the aggressive blames comes from her borderline behavior. too many times i have doubted myself that maybe she can't be with me because of her parents. yet after over a year of research and knowing her every single behavior i am convinced she has BPD. heck, when she took the BPD diagnosis quiz last summer she scored "severe BPD". truth is probably a combination of both...parents (who are abusive towards her) and BPD.

her excuses have been I abandoned her, my mother didn't treat as a daughter-in-law, i am not educated enough nor earn enough, i only wanted to be in her pants, i never showed commitment, i didn't propose to her, i didn't respect her father by giving in to his demands, and lastly few weeks back she said "i didn't see love or feelings or compassion from you. but i will cherish our lovely memories".

so much for being by her side 24/7 and taking care of her whenever she has needed me, been suicidal, as a escape from her parents.
i have read so much about BPD and so worried about her future and what she is doing with her life right now.