Yes...
I have told her that too a few times...more like asked her. Am I your escape from your parents?
Thing is, back in college when she didnt exhibit BPD...i fully felt her love. When she came back and we went through the intense honeymoon period, i felt her extreme love. even till 45 days back I still did (whenever she would be nice to me).
Now I am full of doubts, how much of it was real and how much was BPD. I believe the love is real...but her running away and coming back is BPD.
Whether she will be back now is up in the air. And if she comes back, how will I deal with it.