Smmath gave perfect advice (and has an adorable avatar! ). She needs to understand from you that while you are hurt, you don't wish to see her hurt. She being in pain doesn't soothe your own pain, you know? If anything, it probably makes it worse.

I am, perhaps, glad she is remorseful...I'd feel worse if she just kept on trucking, so to speak. But I am sorry this is weighing on you...I know this must be hard.

Please know you are both in my prayers, and I wish you my best.

Hugs,
Harley