Hi Minefield, I cant tell you what to do, I can only share my experience, strength and hope. After I stopped drinking, I had the jaw problem, It didn't get to the point where I couldn't eat. But, I had all kinds of problems, another being headaches. I found out I had sleep Apnea, where I stoped breathing around 235 time in a 5 hour periond and restless leg syndrome. My doctors have helped alot. Things have turned around now and I feel soooo much better.!!! Its was hard to make the right decisions; even after I stopped drinking, but with help of other people I am getting better at it. In answer to your question my advise would be to not smoke the weed and take one day at a time.