I never know what the woman is talking about. Not because I think she has double meaning, just because I don't think she is ever listening to me. It is like I am talking about something that is bothering me like "I became somewhat unsettled when my dad said ..." or "I am sad about the anniversary of my mom's death" and she will respond with "Pluto is no longer a planet" or "You have to adjust the liquid levels when cooking with whole grains" sort of response. Where as not untrue, I have no idea what it has to do with what I am talking about. When I ask her (directly "what the hell does that have to do with anything" or even "why did you just say that?"), she is never able or willing to say.