I am sorry that happened. Once he sobers up, hopefully you will feel strong enough to tell him that type of behavior is unacceptable and you will not be around him when he is drinking.

Unfortunately, alcoholism is a very complex disease and there is nothing you can do to change it. He has to want to change it and get help for himself.

You may also want to go to your local Al Anon meeting to gain more knowledge and perspective. moreover to get input and support. They are tremendously helpful and informative, safe places.

Please let us know how you are doing and keep posting. We are here and care. Hugs.