I would also like to address t's triggering intentionally. There were times that I thought my t was subtly doing that.

However, with me the emotions were stored separately from the "short clips" of the memories.

The emotions could only be "triggered" out and then they grew...boy, did they grow...like flood gates broken.

Anyhow, he let me make that decision myself. That required MUCH trust of him and myself. When we did that, the most healing occurred.

Before that though, I had to feel relatively safe in my current world, trust him, trust myself, and have memories that I could grab and know it turned out OK somehow today. It was alot of work, very difficult work but amazingly healing work.

KD