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Originally Posted by feralkittymom
The only time I can see not talking about it is if the T believes the client isn't ready to have the resistance brought to the fore. But if the client brings it up, then I would think that's an indication that the client is ready to begin resolving the resistance.
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but she said that precisely because of resistance, it was not acceptable to talk about this topic, it had to be tabled.
I find it so hard to sign up to the idea that I am the one 'driving'; at times like this, I obviously am not. Sure I can decide to come in and talk about something - but only to a point, apparently? The brake, the steering wheel, don't really belong to me?
And that's OK... sort of... but only sort of. It sure is going to be a long week and a lot of dread for the next session, which I think is too bad. I don't think it is usually this way at all, and I don't want it to be this way.