(Sunny) >> So your T cut off conversation and then added that you couldn't ever talk about the subject at a subsequent meeting as well? That seems kind of strong.
no I didn't say that - apologies if I gave that impression. She didn't say that either; the message seemed to be, this is not the time to discuss because you are highly resistant. I don't know why that should make any difference.

if you are beginning to broach an issue you want to work on or change, even in the distant future[...] Is that kind of like what you are going through, SAWE?
I would say yes; I have no idea how T would answer that.

It might be easier to understand the situation if we knew, broadly, what the topic was?
I will PM you Sunny.