Just got back from my walk with Amber. Did some thinking. Wondering how much of it is my fault. I mean, Jerry had the right to do what he did; invite his kids both natural and step-kids. After all, he raised them! BUT! He doesn't think of what listening to all of that AND helping him with air line tickets, itinerary, etc does to ME! He could do all of that out of earshot from me. He could go to a travel agent and have THEM do everything he's asked me to do. Bottom line... why didn't I tell him before it could hurt me???