Pretty early on, my T said something about it seemed like I was exercising in order to "kill" my emotions. My response was along the lines, yeah, of course I am. Duh. It was almost a week later when I realized he had said that as if it were a bad thing, and we had to go back and talk about it the next week. I told him that statement was way to subtle for me and if he thought my behave was unhealthy, he was going to have to be a lot more point blank about it. He has, since then, been very direct when he thinks I am being unhealthy.