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Originally Posted by mahe318
Yeah but the she should maintain the distance no .. she should know the boundaries between a guy friend and her Boyfriend ..
But still the most irritating thing is she calls me KID most of the time .. N do feel like hitting her .. but I control it .. I would like to answer that one day though .. cause I have seen life too .. but that piss me off ..
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Hitting her would be a gross overreaction to her calling you KID. Just tell her to not call you KID. Use your words. Then see what happens.
She can text you at any time of the day or night - it is her business. You should be asleep at "Sometimes she talks till 1 or 2 am in the morning ..
we have chatted earlier at 3-4 am too .. "
You should be asleep at 1,2,3,and 4 am. If you are here on a mental health support site, then you should really try very hard to be asleep at those hours because your sleep schedule is a core element of good mental health.
In practical terms, it means that you should not respond to texts/emails/chats etc. until the next day.
Doing so is way simpler than complaining that "Yeah but the she should maintain the distance no .. she should know the boundaries between a guy friend and her Boyfriend .. "
In general, if you can use technology rather than psychology to solve a practical problem, you should go ahead and do that, without any hesitation or delay.