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Originally Posted by Asiablue
I wonder whether at this stage with so many diagnoses's flying about, maybe it's time to just concentrate on the certain behaviours you want to change rather than putting a label on them? The diagnosis isn't important, you the person is what is important.
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Thanks! I agree with you. It's just that people are giving me these diagnoses. I never would have gone to a pdoc if my DBT T hadn't told me it would help my "OCD". Now she thinks I have C-PTSD. I like her but I'm not going to think about diagnoses. Fortunately, my T never cared. She just says I have attachment issues but I think she told me that once in 3 years! The only reason maybe it would have been helpful for her to take my BPD diagnosis more seriously is that she would have possibly thought more before letting me hold her hand. She said "touch is healing" back then, and I know it is, but not when you have BPD and think about your T too much.