I just want to see the best in her. I still have no idea how I can trust her. I feel real crappy that I was being completely open and honest with her and at the same time she was Lying and hiding these from me. I don't think 4 days of her crying makes up for what she did to me. I want to be angry with her, but atthe same time I want to be happy and loving towards her. She is my wife and I care deeply for her, but I am still hurt by what she did. I don't know what to do about it. My only hope is therapy wed will give me some insight.