Hi Gloria, nice to meet you.

You seem to struggle.

Like : "I don't want somebody to tell me what i need to do so my mariage survives, i want somebody to help me figure out what i need to do to survive."

To me, it seems you're like in some kind of a stranglehold...

Would you like to feel bad all the rest of your life because you've not married the right man ?

The tone of your post seems quite alarming to me...

I can't give you any advice as for kids because i've none.

But to me, if you had the guts to write this down, that shows you will eventually find a solution even tough you might not like it.

Taking a decision can sound so scary, but you have to do it sometimes.

It's a gut decision call, and it is your call...

Sincerely,

Starbuck



Born in 1963 of French mom and Canadian dad.