So at the risk of bombardment you write something just for the sake of arguing because you want to get your opinion across? Okay, so now that we're disagreeing again, let me repeat my side of the story yet again.

The problem is that I'm not ready for a relationship. My guy and I discussed it and came to an agreement that we want to take it slow and not rush before we're ready. So does it matter? It does to know that he is in it for the long run and not play the Taylor Swift dating game of dating the first person to have a common interest with (and then writing a song about how we're never ever ever getting back together). Is it a compliment? I guess so, sure, but I don't want to be in a relationship if I'm not ready and he completely understands.

There is a difference between looking for problems and knowing what is best for myself. I like this guy alot and he likes me, and if he is worth it then we can wait a month to see if we are really compatible. I can't say we're compatible after one date, and as I've said twice before, he understands why I don't want to rush into calling each other bf/gf. It's a test, preference, whatever you will, but it doesn't mean I'm looking for problems or even that I don't want to be his girlfriend.

I am sorry it makes you cross, but there's no reason for you to show it. It's not appropriate, especially when it's not helpful.