I was upset and trying to explain why I was there and instead of getting into a circular discussion on feelings like all the other T's. Things that went like
otherT: How do feel?
me: I don't know.
otherT: You must know how you feel.
me: I just don't know how I feel.
otherT: Why did you come here?
me: There's something wrong
otherT: What is wrong?
me: I don't know.
otherT: well, how do feel?....

He just changed direction and I thought this guy knows what he's doing. Sometimes he misses but I feel confident now that I can challenge him on this.

Plus he had a ponytail and a beard a big plus for me. All other T's were women.