That is because you were not here when Rainbow upset many people claiming that she "wished she had been abused".... because then she would have a reason for her behaviors.

The impact of me writing it is not the same as the impact it made on the forum at the time, because of how it was said and under what circumstances it was said.

Besides the lack of sensitivity for people who suffered childhood abuse and in a forum where many suffered terribly, it also implied that abused people use the abuse to justify their "unacceptable" behaviors.

It upset alot of folks and the thread was closed.