i'd had previous t's with no attachment, so when i went to current t he was pulling the attachment crud on me, so in the beginning i really thought he was stupid. the family was going because of behaviour my kids were having. after a about a month, he said to me, "Your kids are fine, but you need to come back... "

hence started that journey into therapy....
and i told him later, if i knew what i was getting myself into i would have never started all this in the first place.