Hi Nissa213, I think this was a learned habit for me. My sister and I both. Thanks for sharing honestly about this. A friend of mine told me several years ago, she was from alanon, she said "your mom taught you that". I talk about her off and on, shes 75 now and been through a lot in her life and is also very wise, she pretty much saved my life in the past . We don't talk much now, I need to call and see hows shes doing. It makes since what Leed said to help others.
ps, I'm from Ohio to.