Hi "Weeping" ~ Bless your heart. You're miserable, aren't you! I can certainly understand.
Like Madisgram said, perhaps marriage counseling would help, but from the sounds of your husband, I'm not sure it would work.

He sounds like the type that wouldn't listen to a counselor because he'd always be right.

My ex was like that --- the counselor said something my ex didn't like in the first session, and he got up and walked out and never went back.
You might ask him to go and if he DOES go, I hope it works. Otherwise, you might be better on your own! I wish you the very best. God bless and please take care of yourself. Hugs, Lee