How do you handle resentment? I have been trying to patch things up with my wife and trying to make things work between us. Last night I was laying in bed and I was just seething with anger and resentment for her betraying my trust. Last week I was fine being alone and not speaking and now it is like things are going back to normal but I have all this rage. Part of me wants to love and care for her and the other part of me wants to ignore and push her away. I have this inner voice telling me she is just going to lie to me and do what she always does. I feel like it is easier to be angry with her than let myself trust her again. How does someone handle resentment towards a spouse?

We are going to our first marriage counsling on Thursday and I have my 2nd appointment with therapy tomorrow.