Okay, can anyone tell me how you can tell if there is counter transference going on? I feel very supported by my therapist and safe...but I noticed tonight that she had some difficulty maintaining eye contact with me....a little tension perhaps. When I touched my hair she did the same(to her own, of course)I'm very observant. Any input by both experienced clients and therapists as well would be very much appreciated....thanks! I would like to add that I am not upset or worried but just very curious