My boyfriend who does not have any college degree but who did research on multiple websites came tp the conclusion i may have DID. Then my little Anna came out this weekend for the first time with him and he treated her aparently with respect and at a childs level as she came switched with me four more times to play with him. They played Chutes and Ladders.

Then today I was talking with my nurse L about my family apparently a trigger because Anna switched with me again. My boyfriend said L did not treat Anna with respect and talked to her as a parent would a kid who was in trouble! L was working on her masters in psychology before she needed to stop the program. According to L the more Anna switches with me the more control she will get which is what she is seeking. Anna says she is here to keep me safe. There is more to it.. but. Anna apparently said L was mean.

I am curious how others treat your alters? I want people to treat mine as they want to be treated. I don't tjink the answer is to be mean. BF said L told Anna "we don't nerd you. Kerri doesn't need you she is strong" and he thinks Anba stuck around longer then she would have.

Thoughts?