I feel very similarly.

It really feels like a vicious circle for us persons with bpd.

Both times I was diagnosed, I felt like both doctors were writing me a death sentence. "You have this and we can't do anything for you. In fact, dont' even bother calling...we have washed our hands of you..."

And then non-doctor's saying things like, "Just deal with it. In the meantime, don't bother US. You'll be just fine."

Carol