Before me and my boyfriend got together, we were best friends for five years. As of today, we have been together for almost two years. During our rship we have had our ups and downs. At one point, I felt as if he just didn't love me for me anymore. Just a week ago, I told him that I felt that we should be apart. I had a lot of stuff going on in my life that I really felt that needed some sort of correcting. To me, he has become very clingy and I really need my space. I love him, but I just don't know if our relationship is going to progress. He says that he wants to marry me. I don't think that he really is sure about that. I feel, however; how can one be so sure when we aren't really connecting? The sex is not that great and I have restrained myself from him sexually. We still turn each other on it's just that I don't feel the need for sex anymore with him. When I am out by myself on the other hand I see people that I may feel that I would want to start a new relationship. I am not really feeling this one anymore and just think that I could do a lot better. I need more excitement in my life and don't want to be at a plateau with no progression. I want to feel appreciated and loved but more so that my partner knows what he wants and for the right reasons. That day that I broke up with him I felt as if I was making the right choice, but when he walked out of the door my heart ached so bad like it never has before. We both hugged each other and cried before he left and I didn't want to let him go. I know that he loves and cares about me and I do too. Its just that I feel like I'm stuck. What should I do?