Hi Adam ~ Remember that "resentment is the poison I take to kill you." All you're doing is hurting you by hanging on to these resentments. SHE isn't getting hurt by it. Resentment is like a cancer -- it eats you inside out.

The only way you're going to trust her again is by doing it. You've just plain got to do it, and see what the results are. If you get burned again, then you'll know what to do. But to continue living in mis-trust just leaves things in limbo. You can't live like that. You have to make the decision to trust, IF the relationship is going to continue.

So let go of the resentments. You HAVE to in order to survive. Just decide that they aren't worth your sanity or your marriage. And they aren't!!!

God bless and take care Adam. Hugs, Lee