My grandmother once talked to me in a dream. It wss something she would ever know about me after she passed. The last thing she said was "and she danced"
We couldn't really talk before she passed because of the language barrier. Maybe your Aunt wanted to tell you to not care what other people think about you and live for the beauty of life?. That's what I got out of my grandmother. Her husband was so strict religiously they were not allowed to listen to listen to music..