I don't think you are being out of order for not wanting to have to account for your actions. It would have been more productive if she had a calm discussion about meds, and when you say everything is fine for you to be believed.

Do you think she may be right at all in her concern for you? If you think that even a little it may cause you to go on the defensive as well.

You were right to tell her how you feel even if it did offend, now you can clear the air and move forward rather than quietly resenting and not getting the help you need. She is not a pro though and needs to learn how to be a support to someone whilst learning about herself in the process. I would not like being criticised, it natural to be off standing as a result the key is how you deal with that.

I hope you guys find a way to work through it xxx