Itsnīt it just basic transference/countertransference online?
So the onces who offer a different perspective should stir away? How about people who offer support and
should see why they feel the need to do that too? Do to their own issues?
The OP even said, there was some truth in was written. So perhaps something good will come out of it? Like usefull feedback to reflect on?..= Support more long term?
We all have a choice to block people, if we are offended by their responses. But I "get" the whole " I canīt help it" ..So I am going to unblock, forget my DBT Skills,have a tantrum and have people splitting up in threads.. same reaction, pattern and quite a bit of second gain from it week after week.
So basically the once who get strong reactions do to their own stuff, should not be posting? Good or bad, but work on it in T? That would probably mean no responses.. which would create another "tantrum" Difficult stuff..sigh..
Just my opinion. I can be blocked too
