I really don't think you should have talked as much as you did. If you were REALLY afraid of her safety, you should have notified the police if it was THAT dangerous.

But since her culture is such that you don't divulge anything, then you shouldn't have. She trusted you NOT to tell -- and you did. You told people that didn't need to know -- you were only concerned with YOUR feelings -- what people thought of YOU.

So I don't blame her for being upset. I would be too. I'm sorry but I'm on her side.

God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee