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Originally Posted by suzzie
is not telling anyone your in t. or why your in t. not trying. not being willing to move forward. i dont want to tell. but my t thinks if i dont im not trying. she said i dont/wont do anything she asks. should i be better at this. she also said i shouldnt worry if anyone sees my homework she gives. its about trauma stuff. she said that doesnt matter.
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These seem like odd things for a T to say. I am always banging on about this on these threads: first thing is to talk to your T and check you understood each other correctly. As I can tell you from personal experience that things can get lost in translation, you understand things differently, etc. Last week, I was absolutely convinced my T said I couldn't get comfortable as I'd get stuck. He said that was odd as he'd never say that, as he thinks getting comfortable in T is a good thing.
For the record, I don't think you should tell anyone unless you want to! Why should you? Ts aren't there to tell you what to do or emotionally blackmail you.
I think a good idea would be to go back and discuss this with your T. If she really means all this, she's wrong, in my opinion.