Open Eyes - I'm not saying that you didn't learn and grow from these experiences. Honestly, I'm not only talking to you there's a whole thread with various responses going on. I was just pointing out that there's a difference between the idea of growing and learning, and then the phenomenon known as post-traumatic growth. I don't get why you're responding each time like I'm specifically selecting you out for criticism. I'm not being disrespectful, if nobody is forcing you to respond. If it's this thread was that much of a challenge and bothered you that much, seriously, you're not obligated to respond, especially when there's already plenty of conversation.