That's so insensitive! I'd try and bring it up, but if she continues try and maybe look for someone else. I also think asking her about her training is a good thing. Someone can be a body psychotherapist and still be a good therapist, body psychotherapy just means having moe awareness of the body and working with it in therapy, but in her case maybe she did get more training in the massage and not in being a good therapist. Then again there are plenty of therapists trained in therapy who are insensitive sadly! I agree that it's probably a combination of ignorance and countertransference on her part.