You just had your session tonight, right? I really think things will look better tomorrow morning, or the morning after, when the anger becomes more manageable.

I agree with the others that your T might not have meant it to come out the way it did or she meant something else. My T has suggested to me that some things I've done in reaction to my pain are similar to what was done to me. She too did not say it in the most tactful manner, but I've realized that she had a point.

It doesn't mean you are bad. Even if you are like your mother in the negative connotation that you are taking, you are still going to therapy to heal/get better. (For the record, I don't think you're like you mother in that way).