People (and bears hehe) who admit to having problems that they want to change are very brave and strong minded individuals. many people will go through life thinking the world has problems but they dont, but everyone alive has problems, big or small. but to stand and say you have these problems, and say that you are thinking of councilling to help yourself, means alot to me and i think you should be very proud of yourself.

i hope it goes well. you certainly are not a "bad bear" hehe.

simon