I can't believe how insensitive some people can be when it comes to infertility. I'm also currently struggling with emotions surrounding my infertility. I agree with everyone else. It may be time to look for a new t. Feel free to pm me anytime if you want someone to talk to who understands. I just had my first IVF in February and it failed after 6 failed inseminations. H and I are trying to decide if we want to try again or if we want to adopt.